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RP: Most of us, at some point in our lives, have difficulty managing our spending.
For financial writer and consultant Jason Butler, learning to control our spending should be everyone’s financial priority.
JB: The number one thing you must learn and understand — and it does not require a high IQ — is to learn how to control your spending. Do not worry about budgets. Budgets are for accountants. Learning to spend your money wisely is about you telling your money where you want it to go before it goes out the door.
That’s how much money I spend on the basic you (that’s my core living costs), how much will I spend on the future you (that’s my debt repayment and building savings and pensions) and how much will I spend — and this is the bit I love — the fun you! The things that make life interesting now! Not when we’re old and falling apart.
But you make those decisions in a much more intentional way; and, if you haven’t got enough money coming in because your job’s not paying enough, you can’t afford your job! Go and get another job or find a way of increasing the income. But most people don’t think about where the money’s going to go until after the event, and they wonder where the money’s gone. And if you don’t master that — it doesn’t how much you earn, it doesn’t matter how much money comes in the door — you will never build wealth, and also you will never be intentional about the money in helping you live a fulfilling, joyful, and enjoyable life.
RP: Yes, all those little purchases add up, but it’s the big-ticket items that you really need to focus on.
A useful tip, before you make a large purchase, is to calculate how long you’ll have to work for to pay for it.
JB: So I recently bought a car. The principle was: I thought to myself, how many hours is it going to take me to earn the money to replace the money out of my savings that I’m going to use to buy that car? Is that worth it to me? So, if you’re buying a £150 jacket and you only earn £10 an hour — that jacket is not £150. It’s 15 hours of work.
RP: Remember, as well, that your house, your car, your clothes should not define your self-worth. And, appearances can be deceptive. People who look rich may be anything but.
JB: The people who look like they’ve got the most money. They’ve all the fancy watches, and all the la-de-da holidays on Facebook, and what have you. They probably are poor as church mice.
Rich people are people who have choices. They are people who do what matters to them in life, they’re the people who’ve got things in perspective, people who get purpose from work as well as money. So, remember money needs to be in context. You need enough so that you’re not miserable… but having loads and loads of money isn’t going to make you loads and loads more happy.
RP: So, think about what money really means for you. What, for you, does wealth actually look like? Think about it honestly, and the answers may surprise you.
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